Although there are numerous ways to catch your husband cheating on you, one of the most effective is the physical search. If your intuition tells you that she is having an affair and also shows all the classic signs of a cheating husband, it means nothing unless you can find real proof. And when it comes to evidence, nothing beats the physical guy.
Once you have an incriminating receipt, a credit card/cell phone bill, a movie ticket stub, an article of clothing, or a steamy love letter, you know you have it in place and nothing can do to get out of that
One of the biggest problems with physical evidence is that your husband will most likely destroy any trace of the affair long before he can find it. Unless he just doesn’t care, he’ll make sure nothing falls into your hands that could link him to his mistress.
Although you can destroy all the evidence, it is inevitable that you will eventually forget something. That’s when you want to be there to pick it up. Here are some of the most common areas to look for the physical evidence you need:
Your desk drawer – Look back. Do you have any locked drawers? Why would I need to close a drawer unless I was hiding something?
Your car – be sure to look under the seats, in the glove box and in the trunk. Look for receipts, ticket stubs, coffee mugs with lipstick, and clothing items.
his clothes – Check the inside of jacket pockets, pants pockets and shirts.
Please note that you are not likely to bring home physical evidence unless you have forgotten it. Therefore, it is unlikely that you will find anything worthwhile inside the house. Anything you don’t destroy will likely be found at your job, in your car, in your gym locker, etc. Of course, other than your car, accessing these places would be more difficult.
Even if you keep coming back empty-handed, don’t despair. It’s only a matter of time before she finds exactly what she was looking for.