It is the enigma of old age. He is interested in sex and she is interested in romance. It’s hard to strike a balance and is often the cause of stress in relationships.
From my perspective as a non-expert in this area, I think it’s true. There is a fundamental mismatch between what men want and what women want from their personal relationships.
It is a pity that it is so. You can’t blame men, that’s just the way they are. This is how they are wired.
And equally you can’t blame women, that’s how they are. This is how they are wired.
Of course, that’s not to say that men don’t like romance, or that women don’t like sex, but when it comes down to it, I think it’s clear that men are looking for more sex in their relationships, and women seek more romance. .
Of course, we can see this as a major problem in relationships. A point of tension in relationships. A burden, a cause of friction and a cause of anguish.
However, I think we should look at it differently. If so, why not see it as an opportunity to celebrate our differences and accept them? Accept, if I’m a man, that she wants romance more than I do.
Accept, if I am a woman, that he wants sex more than me.
And do something about it, use it as a point of support to improve our relationships, not to allow it to destabilize them.
I write about gifts for men. I’m not a relationship expert, so take everything I say with a grain of salt. However, I look at this from the point of view of giving gifts.
I see an opportunity for gift-giving to become part of our relationships. That gift can celebrate this particular difference between men and women and help bridge the gap.
How? Just Like This A couple needs to talk about their likes and dislikes in the relationship. There will be many of course, but I’m just talking about this one in particular. And if he’s more interested in sex and she’s more interested in romance, they should admit that. So they need a strategy to overcome it and turn it into a strength in the relationship.
In my opinion, they can do this by giving gifts.
So she accepts that he loves sex. She accepts that if the relationship is going to work out as well as she would like, she should indulge this a bit. Giving her some sexy gifts from time to time. Attractive gifts that a man would love.
I’m not going to go into details, I talk more about it on my site, but I’m not talking about porn movies or anything like that, just some sexy little ideas that any man would love.
In the same way, and what is more important, he must accept that, although it is not so important to him, she loves romance, long walks, flowers, etc.
And he needs to please this. To bring gifts to the relationship that she will enjoy. Romantic gifts she wouldn’t normally have thought of.
He should strive to bring more romantic gifts to the relationship, and she should strive to bring more sexy gifts to the relationship.
And in this way, in my opinion, it will become stronger for both of them, and they may even find that romantic gifts and sexy gifts tie it all together so that the relationship grows and becomes more fulfilling for both of them. May your sex life improve and your sentimental life improve.
And then the fundamental enigma has turned into something positive and has strengthened the relationship for both of them.