Boys, boys, boys, what the hell were you thinking? I bet you a round right now that at some point you were with a girl, and all of a sudden she was in a bad mood with you. You have no idea what set her off? Then you really need to read this article right now!
You see, women are incredibly emotional creatures, and you need to be aware of all the various kinds of issues that are very, very important to them if you hope to become a master of the art of seduction. The good news is that once you learn what not to do, and I’ll explain a few things to you right now… you’ll be surprised at how much better you’ll be at making women powerfully attracted to you.
There are many things that men do that annoy women, but believe me when I say that they are easy to avoid if you are aware of them. Guys, it’s not rocket science, women really aren’t as complicated as you might think. We men invented the wheel and the internal combustion engine, so believe me, I’m sure you can understand how not to upset your girlfriend…just follow these simple rules that I’m about to give you.
First things first, the ex-archives. His last relationship may have been horrible, but unless his new woman asks her specifically, she really doesn’t want to know all the ins and outs. Showing a lot of emotion about a previous girlfriend sets off an alarm bell in a girl’s head, even if you’re saying your ex was a complete bitch. Strong feelings, whether positive or negative, about an ex show that you still care; and no girl wants to get involved with a man whose mind is still occupied with the drama of the past.
The topic of other girls in general is tricky actually. You have to be really aware of your girlfriend’s feelings towards you having other girls as friends. You have to understand that while some girls are secure in their relationships and are happy to let their boyfriends socialize with other women, most women can feel threatened by this involvement. Being honest now, wouldn’t you feel the same way too? Let’s say, for example, that your girlfriend is out partying with a very handsome guy, hint at jealous behavior, don’t deny it, we’ve all been there, and it’s a completely natural reaction. A good rule of thumb is “don’t do anything I wouldn’t do”; If you don’t want her to do it, don’t do it.
Another big no-no is being vague about making plans with your girl or canceling at the last minute. This one should be obvious, it’s just bad manners. It’s only fair if you don’t want to go out with her on a Friday night, but at least be honest and explain that you want to go out with your friends, and then she can make her own plans of hers. See, women understand that you need your space and have a social life outside of your relationship, so give it credit with some common sense and be honest. Plus, if you and your lady didn’t go out separately from time to time, there wouldn’t be any of those fabulous misspelled drunken text messages you send at 4am declaring your undying love for her, for her to wake up to.
It may seem like obvious advice, but it’s worth remembering: think before you speak! Your girl doesn’t need to hear about that really hot girl who just started working with you; she also doesn’t need to hear your thoughts on threesomes if she’s already vetoed the idea. And if her butt looks big in these pants, you can keep that information to yourself: those baggy jeans you wear when you’re at the bar don’t do much for your hiney either, but do you hear her complain? Personal comments of any kind should be limited to complimentary ones, women have enough pressure from society to conform to the sexist stereotype of what a woman should look like anyway, so she wants to be able to believe that her boyfriend loves her for what she is. what is it. Don’t destroy her belief system.
The list goes on, but for the most part it’s just about using your head. Don’t play games, be honest, be aware of their feelings, and when in doubt, ask! Women are great at communication, so if you’re confused or not sure if you’re doing the right thing, open your mouth. And if that doesn’t seem to be working, play the odds and just keep it closed.
Follow these simple tips on communicating with your girl and you can avoid most of the common mistakes that most guys make when trying to seduce their women. And ultimately, you’ll be rewarded with lots of attention from her and lots of ‘physical’ love… really the best of both worlds!