For a long time, people seem to be trying new ways to explore and increase their healthy sexual pleasures with their love partner. For the most part, these natural curiosities had been limited to playful experimentation such as varied positions, tantric sex (sexual yoga), and stimulating conversation. Others have included increasingly risky sexual behaviors such as unprotected sex with multiple partners, marital affairs, self-asphyxiation, and illicit drug use.
Although hypnosis can often play a vital role in treating a variety of therapeutic problems, ranging from impotence and premature ejaculation to marital discord and low libido, its recent misuse is creating new dangers of ” safe sex”. Although “erotic hypnosis” can be used as an adventurous exploration of human sexuality and pleasure, the use of hypnosis should be limited to those properly trained in its application. The proliferation of self-hypnosis programs, however, makes it impossible to fully regulate their private use.
The popularity of books and videos such as “The Sensual Woman,” “My Secret Garden,” “Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know” and “Better Sex” demonstrates that there is a growing market for information celebrating healthy sex. Peter Masters’ 2001 book “Look Into My Eyes” is one of the first to celebrate the use of hypnosis to get the best out of sex life!
Hypnosis is an often misunderstood phenomenon that is basically an exercise in deep meditation. Once in a deeply relaxed state, one’s mind develops a natural and elevated focus. It is this fixed concentration that gives one the unique ability to intensify pleasure, through the guided visualization of erotic hypnosis, like manipulating a dream, but more absorbing.
As with any sexual experience, trust between partners is vital. By the time one’s relationship can become more physically intimate, it is generally assumed that enough time has passed for positive trust to develop between the partners. However, early in the relationship, one may find a false sense of security in phone sex. Although it may be a safer way to increase intimacy, it is important to understand that if erotic hypnosis is performed prematurely (especially over the phone), an unscrupulous partner could take advantage of the other partner, without the victim being aware of the harm. all. .
The potential danger arises from the fact that within this form of hypnosis, one leaves the subconscious mind open to suggestions that one desires. Although it is generally true that people do not normally accept or act on suggestions that are not in accordance with their desires, an intelligent hypnotist might offer pleasurable suggestions that may seem reasonable, but are actually more self-serving. The result could be comparable to someone who may have had one too many drinks, who then wondered why they behaved so foolishly the night before. With erotic hypnosis, for example, a post-hypnotic suggestion may be covertly offered that could compel the victim to take the relationship to the “next level” before she would otherwise have been ready for the breakthrough. .
As with any intimate encounter, it is invaluable that couples who wish to experience this type of hypnosis share a deep trust, honesty, and mutual respect. Although it is not advisable to use any hypnosis outside of clinically indicated settings, respectful couples who care about each other are likely to find this form a mutually surprising and stimulating encounter.