If male chastity is the best gift a man can give a woman, then the best gift she can give him is her orgasms during sex. Yes, you read that right. For many men, even better than his own taunts and denials are his wife’s orgasms while he watches in frustrated agony.
3 Tips To Help Her Orgasm During Sex (While YOU Stay Denied)
- talk dirty to her. Men fall in love with their eyes and women with their ears. I can tell you from personal experience, if your man starts talking dirty to you while he is pleasuring you and you know he’s locked in a male chastity device and can’t cum without your permission, then he’s really mind-blowing (and when he begs you to keep him like that for months…well…it’s something else, I assure you).
- Treat her with a dose of her own medicine.. If she’s kept you denied and in delicious agony for weeks, then just as she’s about to come, slow down and keep her on the edge. Believe it or not, it’s even worse for us girls than it is for men (which is one of the reasons female chastity and orgasm denial aren’t usually one of our fantasies). just keep in mind that if you upset her too much, then your own payoff might be another month or two at the end of your own denial. You may or may not like the idea ;-).
- Find out what her fantasy is… then play with her. Just a word of warning here: don’t be a jerk and don’t get upset if you find out that his fantasy is something that makes you feel jealous or uncomfortable. If you think you are likely to react this way…don’t ask! The thing is, most fantasies are just that: fantasies. And it’s better to leave them like that. But playing them in a safe environment with a loved one is a safe and sensible way to get 80% of the pleasure with only 20% of the effort. And in any case, just remember how lucky you are that SHE indulges you in YOUR fantasy of male chastity and orgasm denial.
Ultimately, male chastity isn’t just about you and your orgasm denial.
If you want her to play the game and give up penetrative sex with you, and allow all the teasing and denial, then it stands to reason that she has to get something out of it too. In other words, you must ask her that important question on her mind: “What’s in there for me?“
And by learning to give her the most amazing orgasms you can, you handsomely pay the price of her denying you yours. I know that since John and I began living the male chastity lifestyle, my orgasms have become more frequent and more powerful…and even more exciting for me. him…to the extent that we are now very seriously considering permanent orgasm denial for him as a way to increase the love and intimacy, both physical and emotional, between us.