This type of man is actually easier to ‘conquer’, thank you, because he loves being part of a couple environment, part of a ‘pair’: in fact, he sees being part of a ‘pair’ as part of a plan universal harmonious. and the only way to truly live in harmony, which he aspires to all the time. This way, unlike other types of men, you won’t have to convince him that being two is better than living alone: he already thinks so, and he usually enjoys a monogamous relationship. So his work with his heart is much easier in terms of mental mindset.
Emotionally speaking, the path to your heart is to get to know you, to know what makes you unique, and to show your appreciation. This is a man who appreciates the mind, so develop this aspect of yourself to the best of your ability if you wish to have his heart.
Like all air signs (and this one in particular), the way to your heart is through your mind. For him, it all starts in the mind, so providing a stimulating conversation, a mentally (as in sensory level) stimulating date, a way to engage his psyche during and after the date, are key elements of your seduction process.
Some say that this type of man loves beauty but do not misinterpret it for superficiality. This man is not superficial, but he enjoys harmony, like a set of pleasant and harmonizing colors, a harmonious face, a harmonious body.
But, as mentioned before, don’t worry too much about the outside: get closer to him through his mind, and his love for you will be deep and lasting.