Did you know that 90% of women don’t know how to suck their penis, at least not very well? It’s a shocking amount, and sadly, it’s very easy to learn. Yes, you heard me. You need to learn how to suck a penis the right way, very few women can do it from the door. It is an art form that can be easily learned. Now you may be wondering why you should learn to give a man oral sex. The honest reason, if you don’t, your man will find someone who can. I can’t explain why a blowjob is so important to men, at least not in this short space. All I can tell you is that it is very important. And no matter how much vaginal intercourse you have, you will still want oral. I guess it boils down to the fact that it is a very dominant expression for a man for a woman to suck on his penis. It gives you a feeling of power, but in fact the power changes in your favor when you learn to suck a penis really well.
When you can literally bring your man to his knees due to the power of your lips, tongue, and hands, you become the dominant force in the relationship. A woman who possesses and exercises this power can get anything she wants. As well as never having to fear that your man will sneak out to find a new mouth that craves his penis, because you just didn’t. So let’s see how you get started.
It’s all in the attitude
You may have read in some magazines that you need to learn all these crazy blowjob techniques to satisfy your man. Well that’s not the case, in fact many of those techniques are so intricate and complicated that they will do more harm than good. Sorry if I need to have diagrams and pictures to learn how to suck a penis, it is too complicated. I like to keep things clean, simple, and easy to manage. It is true that there is some merit in learning new techniques to suck your penis. However, you must be more aware of yourself than your penis. If you can change your inner thinking about blowjobs, you can become a teacher.
Honestly, it becomes a simple fact of mind over matter. You have to make yourself believe that, you love to suck his penis. That’s true if you’re not really a big fan of oral sex. You have to make him believe that you love what you are doing in order for him to believe that you love him. If for a minute he feels that you don’t love his penis as much as he does, you’re going to lose it. Second, you have to put yourself in that mindset that you are going to give him the best blowjob of yours and of his life. It’s pretty much the same mindset a runner would go into in a race. They make themselves believe that not only are they going to finish the race, they are also going to win it.
Now I know this seems a lot easier said than done. And to be honest with you, it is. Many things seem easier on paper than in life. I can sit here and talk about gaining confidence and attitude until I feel sad. I want to give you some tips to make this transformation happen for you. Find some really sexy music to help get your groove going. Maybe some soft jazz, soulful R&B, or even some dirty rap. Anything that helps you relax and enter the moment will help you. Second, find the naughtiest piece of lingerie your local store has. I’m talking about seeing through red or black mesh, you want to give your man a good tease before you start. Lastly, just put your makeup on, find dramatic makeup colors that will help you transform into an evening diner. It sounds very generic, but rest assured, they have helped many women find their way into the bedroom. It’s about creating a character or a new personality that will drive your man crazy in the bedroom.