Jealousy. For some people, the indicators of a jealous personality may already be obvious, but many are unaware of the obvious signs of this feeling. Do you wish you could know if your man starts behaving like a possessively jealous guy?
He’s jealous when he gets upset over stories of your past relationships.
Even though your ex is long gone, your guy still gets offended every time you mention your past relationship with him. For him, he is the present man and there should be no more mention of past relationships.
He gets jealous when he starts acting possessive in the presence of your friends.
Try to observe how he behaves when you are with your best friends. It doesn’t really matter if your friends are girls or boys (although I’d be more jealous when boy friends gather around you). For him, the time you spend with your friends should have been time with him.
He seems threatened when your gaze falls on another man.
If your guy tries to block you with his body just so you don’t see Hunk #1 walking down the street, then you know for sure he’s too jealous. He is also jealous when he looks at the other guy and tries to convey through his angry look that he already owns you.
He’s the jealous type when he needs to know your location every time.
A guy who is sure about your relationship would need to ask you once where you are and that’s it – he wouldn’t harass you with frequent text messages or calls. If your man demands to know where you are at every hour, then you definitely have, not just a jealous man, but an overly possessive guy for a boyfriend.
He’s jealous when he reacts negatively to people (mostly men) who say you’re attractive.
Instead of feeling good or proud of having a beautiful girlfriend, a jealous guy would get mad at other people who appreciate his beauty. He also doesn’t want to see you mixing with these people as he sees them as a threat to your little isolated world with him.
He’s jealous when he feels bad because you’re having fun without him.
Of course you have to spend a few hours away from him, but when he knows you had fun during his absence, he’ll make sure you feel guilty about it.
He gets jealous when he says you don’t prioritize him.
Men are territorial by nature, so when they threaten to take your territory (you), you automatically retaliate. He also verbalizes his insecurity by saying that you no longer prioritize him.
It’s okay for a man to feel a little jealous, but when this feeling turns into possessiveness or even obsession, it’s no longer considered healthy, so it’s your responsibility to get out of the relationship as quickly as you can.