If you are at least the age of majority and reading this, then you are probably very familiar with this notion. Just as a guy has to continually express his interest and his constant intrigue with you, your responsibility is very mutual. He’ll have to forgive the cliché, but it never stops being true and it can’t go unnoticed: it takes two for a relationship to work! I said it there and now we move on. If you’re anything like me, you continually strive to maintain his unwavering passion for you and his undying interest.
Bluntly have your own brain
All but the most negative and ungrateful men love a woman who knows how to have a witty and intelligent conversation. You should not try to be her carbon copy of her female, nor should he expect you to be. While you never go too far to distance yourself from him, you must show him that you are perfectly capable of being independent, even though you would prefer to remain mostly independent, but depending only on her unwavering love and her tender care.
Jealousy is a beast that is usually left alone!
Of course, he will mention words and actions of yours that are more or less obviously suspicious. However, that should be reserved for the most obvious situations and used very skillfully. A strong mutual trust in your relationship is obviously extremely essential. Establish trust and don’t worry about spying or “checking” it. Although there are infidelities in your relationship, they will show their ugly face in due time. I realize that the need to question some of his activities can sometimes be overwhelming (I was there, I did that; so if you must call him, be very discreet and very respectful about it.
Sex
This practically speaks for itself. You are well aware that a man requires intimate moments, including sex as well. This is a natural and instinctive need among men, and generally among women, that has existed forever. You want him to know that you want to snuggle real tight sometimes in his arms. Other times, you want to have hot sex and everything in between. However, be careful NOT to develop too much of a “routine” when it comes to romance and sex. The change is great and will keep you and him very interested in each other.
baby please-breath room
One of the main reasons men lose interest and eventually leave women is the smothering factor. Just as you need your space, with your friends, and your quiet time, etc., so does he. The key word is always, always, always moderation. Don’t choke his oxygen supply with obsessive behavior and at the same time don’t give him enough space or reason to want to be single or with another woman. Spades and hold your interest while staying cool.
A slightly more daring approach
This technique can be quite complicated. However, if applied well and in moderation, it has potential, especially in “younger” relationships. Just as you abide by the non-jealousy clause stated above, you may have to turn it around and see if he gets jealous of you (pictures of you hanging out with cute guys, etc.). You know where I’m going with this. . If he really likes you, he will take action and prove it.
Mingle!
Granted, everyone is different—fact of life. However, be sure to talk about new things you want and new activities he wants at times. Related to the talking points above, make sure he knows you’re not just there for his entertainment. She’ll also go to chick flicks (if that’s your thing), cook, and just cuddle on occasion, just the way you want. He’s not a total wimp, and neither are you. Give and take baby, it’s give and take
Questionnaire
This one is entirely up to you, but if you’re looking for a more long-term man, then feel free to give him (without his explicit knowledge, of course) an occasional “quiz” to determine if he wants to be in this relationship long-term. Naturally, don’t “fail” him over the smallest things; however, he will be much more informed about the prospects for his longevity in this relationship and will therefore adjust his “Try to Keep It” factor accordingly.