I’ve always said that when you flirt, there should always be an element of sexuality embedded in the flirt. Now, a lot of guys think pick up lines don’t work. Well those guys are 100% wrong. Pickup lines work and will work as long as you know how to use them.
Now, I called these lines Naughty Banter. They are sexually laced flirting lines and they are huge for getting the girl. Naughty joke lines like these are priceless:
- You’re an Idiot.
- Would you do it.
- You’re a girl.
All of those work amazingly on any woman. You only use them as responses to a girl’s response. Example:
- You: Have you ever seen Sex in the City?
- Her: I love that show. I watch DVDs all the time.
- You: Oh my God! You’re an Idiot!
Now this example is a standard fare. It will arouse attraction. And believe it or not, it has a sexual flavor. The fact that you call her “dumb” indicates that you and she have “chemistry” and that you are confident enough to call her that right at the moment you meet her.
It implies that the two of you could have a sexual relationship in the future. (As if you hadn’t joked like that with a woman you were having sex with.) Now, even in this example, there is a movement towards a well-established relationship, which implies comfort, because it assumes a relationship; and ONLY a man who has confidence in himself and in his own sexuality, would dare with such bold humor.
So there is intent and leadership, which are traits of the alpha male. So there are some sexual sparks in calling a woman you just met an “idiot.” (By the way, if you started doing this with a woman you’ve been friends with and want to put it on a sexual level, it will work just as well!)
But why not put it on a super sexual turbo charge? Study this extended example and its structure: Let’s review the previous example: You:
- Have you ever seen Sex in the City?
- Her: I love that show. I watch DVDs all the time.
- You: Oh my God! You’re an Idiot!
- You are a problem. I need to keep my eyes on you.
See, just that added naughty joke line puts it on a sexual level. You could even add a killer ingredient by adding a simple “cold read”:
- You: Have you ever seen Sex in the City?
- Her: I love that show. I watch DVDs all the time.
- You: Oh my God! You’re an Idiot!
- You are a problem. I need to keep my eyes on you.
- You: I can tell you were a handful with your last boyfriend!
See how a few well-placed lines can move a woman’s interaction to a sexual level with just a couple of lines. Plus, cold reading moves the conversation even further onto a sexual level without coming across as gross.
I’ve always hated when I had no idea how to attract women and didn’t know how to make a (sexually) neutral interaction with a woman towards a sexual trajectory. Often she would end with a handshake and “It was a pleasure to meet you, Mrs. Cuttingham.” HATE THAT! Wow, my life would have been very different if I had known what I know today! –Kurgan PS More on cold reading later!