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Orgasm Denial: How To Stop Your Man From Cumming When He’s At The Point Of ‘No Return’

One of the most difficult things for a man when he is practicing male chastity and orgasm denial is to physically stop his orgasm when he is actually making love to his wife.

The recommended course of action is often to not allow him to make love at all, but that’s just silly fantasy. Very few women would really want that: we love our men and want all the emotional and physical connection of intercourse, even if we insist on not letting them orgasm.

So here are 4 simple strategies and tips that I have found helpful in my own life:

Wine

You can use this at any time and with any of the others in combination.

Why?

Because even a small amount of wine tends to dull the senses a bit and makes it much easier for a man to stay in control of his own orgasm. It’s also great for relaxing you both and getting you in the mood.

But, as I’m sure you can probably guess… you don’t want to overdo it. Too much can cause it to not perform at all (especially if you are over 40).

As I think Shakespeare once said, “The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak” or something like that.

Not only that, but alcohol inhibits your rational thought processes and makes your emotions much more likely to make you say and accept things that might not be so smart when seen in the cold light of day.

a quick movie

If you’re making love and you get the feeling that he’s about to come and he’s obviously not making any attempt to stop, then a flick of your index finger on the end of his penis will take all the breath away from his sales.

It stings a bit, but it’s not that painful and it certainly won’t hurt him (be prepared for the look on his face though. I’d recommend warning him that this is what you’ll do) prior to you even start your foreplay).

a sudden squeeze

Another strategy you can use in circumstances similar to the above is when he is about to ejaculate, reach down, firmly grab his penis with your thumb and forefinger, right where it meets your body, and squeeze it hard, almost like a pinch. .

This will stop you in your tracks. Again, warn him that this is what you’re going to do if he looks like he’s about to come.

the ruined orgasm

And the ‘last resort’, if you’ve been too slow with the other methods, is to give her a ruined orgasm. What this entails is as soon as he starts cumming, and it’s clear he can’t stop… immediately having everyone stimulus.

If you’ve never had a ruined orgasm, I can tell you with confidence that they are much, much worse than no orgasm at all. Just ask my husband.

Doesn’t make sense, does it?

I know.

But it is true. I can’t explain why it is, but it is. It’s like… when you don’t have an orgasm of any kind, you’re still stoned, halfway through, walking around in some sort of semi-permanent orgiastic trance.

But with a botched orgasm, you get the huge post-orgasm hormonal surge in your bloodstream, but none of the satisfaction of the orgasm itself.

I promise, you won’t want to experience this again, so you’ll be a lot more careful next time.

All of these techniques work and I encourage you to try them. It’s not hard to get into the swing of things: all it takes is a little study and a proper appreciation of the facts of male chastity and orgasm denial.

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