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Incest Q&A: Incest Research

Q: What’s wrong with parent-child sex?

A: Sexually abusive parents use sex as a way to control their children and as a way to alleviate sexual and emotional frustration, usually due to a selfish and unsatisfying significant other or marital relationship. Incest has nothing to do with true love.

The experience is oppressive, humiliating, and degrading for sexually abused children. Apart from that, the manipulations and sexual assaults of abusive parents prepare the child for destructive negative agreements, behavior patterns and selfish reactions.

Incest paralyzes children and the toxic residue of the experience, which is usually suppressed or repressed, usually destroys trust and leaks out to contaminate adult sex in open and covert ways. It is a hidden force that often underlies violent acts that are turned into innocent scapegoats.

Q: Why do you insist that the majority of men and women today are survivors of incest?

A: The clues are everywhere and they are spreading. Incest is ancient and is probably prevalent in all human societies. One visible clue is the presence of homosexuality and that presence, though often repressed, oppressed and attacked, goes back in time and around the world.

Incest is extremely selfish behavior instigated and perpetuated by extremely selfish parents. The more selfish a person becomes, the more controlling and abusive they tend to be, and sexual abuse is often part of parental abuse. Sexual abuse often comes under the guise of “love” or “education.”

During the last forty years, humans, especially in America, have chosen to become much more selfish. As such, extremely controlling, abusive, and reactive. The emphasis on sexuality, which is no longer suppressed in the United States and other countries, is not a natural emphasis or phenomenon. It is actually a reliable mirror for the selfish and inappropriate sexuality between parents and children that is and has been happening behind closed doors.

Clues are found in the lyrics of our songs, in the sex (and violence) that permeates our movies and television shows, on magazine covers, in promiscuity, frigidity, pornography, sexual assaults, teenage pregnancies, substance abuse. and symptoms of mental illness that have skyrocketed and run rampant. These are all selfish reactions to something that supposedly never happened.

Q: Is the incestuous experience always harmful?

Thus. The incestuous experience is emotionally devastating and evokes strong selfish reactions.

Reactions develop into destructive behavior patterns that typically manifest as extreme jealousy, cheating patterns, avoidance, avoidance, cheekiness, and refusal to be mentally present in one’s current reality, memory problems, body image problems, and distorted perceptions. of the physical body, a diet. disorder such as anorexia, bulimia and obesity, excessive masturbation, sexual promiscuity, avoidance of sexuality, obsession with sex and sexual images, substance abuse, prostitution, perversion, a significant mental or emotional disorder, suicide attempts or suicide.

Many incest survivors immerse themselves in singing, dancing, acting, painting, law, or nature … only to be able to escape the pain and disappear for a time.

Q: Are you saying that sexually abusive parents are causing many of our personal mental, emotional, behavioral, and sexual ills?

A: No. I am saying that sexually abusive parents, who are invariably incest survivors in a strong reaction to their family experiences, are using their children selfishly, self-centered, and without love, and their children, when they choose to react selfishly to Their loveless experience is creating and perpetuating the personal mental, emotional, behavioral, and sexual ills that plague and hurt them.

The ultimate responsibility for the daily experience of (everyone) incest survivors depends solely on the nature of their choices. When the experience is negative, the choices are selfish and wrong.

Q: Can a person heal from an incestuous experience?

A: The “experience” is not what we must heal from, but rather our selfish reactions to our (negative) experiences that require change or healing.

A more central question would be “Can a person heal from a selfish reaction?” My answer is yes”. provided that a person is sincerely and constantly willing to stop doing what he knows and is doing the wrong thing, and is sincerely and constantly willing to start and keep doing what he knows is really right.

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